I received a product for free to try in exchange for my honest review. All opinions are my own.
When I found out I had to have a surgery that would remove my colon and create a stoma which meant I would have an ileostomy bag, I was terrified. I was worried about how to care for myself after surgery, I was worried about the procedure because I knew that without it I could have died but at the same time I knew the surgery could kill me.
As vain and self absorbed as it sounds my biggest worry was that I would be a “freak” with an ileostomy bag for the rest of my life. I was worried about embarrassing my daughter if one of her friends were to see it and I was most worried about my husband not being attracted to me anymore even though he assured me this would never happen.
I knew I needed the surgery and didn’t really have any other choices.
The nurses said that they were told my colon looked like ground beef due to the damage caused by Ulcerative Colitis. The medicines weren’t working, diet change didn’t fix me, and I was getting sicker by the day so the choice was already made for me, I had the surgery.
While still recovering in the hospital I had nurses that handled my bandage changes as well as everything related to my stoma and ileostomy. I did my best to “check out” during these times so I didn’t concentrate on the pain but it also helped me escape the reality of the situation. When the time came and the ostomy nurses were trying to teach me how to change my own ileostomy bag, I was a mess. I couldn’t even look at my stoma without crying uncontrollably but thankfully my husband kept it together and was able to learn how to care for me.We are at about 12 weeks post op and he still takes great care of me.
I guess the universe evened things out for me, I felt like I was dealt a bad hand with the UC and stoma but my husband is so amazing that I still have it better than most people.
My daughter doesn’t seem to even notice anything different, she still expects the same things from me and tells me I am beautiful when I dress up. She has always loved fashion so on those rare days when I wear matching clothes, she makes a big deal out of it like she has always done.
I became really self conscious with a lot of my clothing because they are not cut right or the material is too thin and it exposes my ileostomy bag or makes it uncomfortable. I began searching for a belt that would help me be a little more discreet and enjoy life again without having to worry about someone seeing my bag. That’s when I found Comfortbelt.com and read these magical words on their site “Because having a stoma shouldn’t stop you feeling like yourself again.”
I couldn’t wait to try it out because the description of the product sounded like everything I was looking for to help conceal my ileostomy.
- Discreetly conceals and encloses your ostomy bag
- Lightweight yet durable design is fully-adjustable to hug your body’s shape
- Easy-to-use zip allows you to empty your bag while still wearing the belt
- Fully-lined, offering peace of mind from embarrassing leaks, and muffling noises
- Anti-bacterial, breathable fabric which you can wear 24/7 and wash at 40 degrees
- The belt has been designed in a way to comfortably fit a Stoma on the right or left.
The fabric is breathable, comfortable, and made from high quality material. I am getting the support I need while being able to disguise my bag at the same time. I can wear my favorite clothes again without any embarrassing bulges showing through.
I am starting to see that I will be able to handle this and have had moments where I feel normal again. So normal that I actually forgot for a few seconds that I have a stoma. I never thought that would happen! I am so thankful that there are products out here like this, made by people who understand the struggle and create solutions for real problems that people with a stoma go through.
You can find out more about The Comfort Belt by clicking here and be sure to check out the video on their site to see how easy it is to use and to conceal your ileostomy bag.